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1/1/2014

It's the first day of the new year.

(Really didn't know how else to start this post with anything other than that so excuse me.)
I've never been one to come up with resolutions and stuff like that but I do have a few I'd like to actually achieve this year.

My health hasn't been at its best. Through out last year I was constantly falling sick, coming down with bouts of flu, having a fever at least twice a month and quite recently my asthma has been given a new lease of life.
So what I need to do this year is to start eating properly and to keep anything with or related to ice at bay and I need to exercise on a regular basis.
Not going to be easy but I have to try otherwise I'd be dead by 50.
Anyway!
Our neighbours invited us over to their place last night for New Year's Eve and we did a countdown to the New Year and everything.

Met a few people. 
And for the first time, everyone I spoke to asked: 1) Why I didn't bring my boyfriend home for the holidays, 2) If I have a boyfriend and 3) Cannot choose ah? Got so many right? *grin*

One girl even said her boyfriend has a couple of Chindian friends all desperately looking for girls.
Lol.
There was this one guy. Cousin of a good friend. Friendly. Conservative thinking. The kind that expects girls to wake up by 8am and not wear anything sleeveless or V-neck. Very pushy. Rather demanding, too. Always expected me to keep in touch. Everyone wants you to keep in touch. But once you tell me to do it, I automatically lose interest. Been friends for over two years now. Been pushing to meet. At first I was all for it. To meet I mean. But I just don't want to anymore :/ And there's a height issue too.
There was one at my apartment area last year. We met sometime in December of 2012 but went out only in April of last year lol. Very cute (think Jacob Artist from Glee). But after two dates we both knew it wasn't going to go anywhere so that was that. We were from two completely different worlds but I have to say, spending time talking to that guy made me realize just how different people really are.
Then there was another guy. No height issue whatsoever. Cute in a grunge kinda way. Into metal. Has a pet tortoise. Quirky in his own way. Nice guy. But we never really had anything in common. We've known each other for over four years now. Maybe more. There's just no spark, ya know?
And another guy. Tuition mates in secondary school for a year or so I think. I never spoke to any of the guys in that class but he remembered me and we connected on Facebook about two years after we finished high school. We had mutual friends after all. Just two weeks back he asked me to be his girlfriend (via Whatsapp). I literally laughed out loud.
There were a couple on WeChat as well. I actually met up with one but he was so self-obsessed I couldn't wait to get into the car and drive off.
Quite recently there was one other guy. Been on my Facebook friends list for ages but only sometime middle of April last year we started talking (after he heard one of my covers on Soundcloud) and we have so much in common! He loves traveling, just like I do. He loves dogs, just like I do. And we think so alike. Conversation comes so easily. Only drawback is distance. He's way up north and I'm way down south. I tried long distance once and it was a pain in the ass so I'm not going down that road again lol. But he's such a lovely person (and has the body of of God). And he's so romantic my goodness. Have made plans to meet but haven't decided on an exact date yet.
I've officially been given the go-ahead to start dating this year.
So let's see who comes along next and what happens.
;)
On that note, have a wonderful new year, all of you. God bless and stay positive!

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