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Damn Son

"Before you let a man sweep you off your feet, come here lemme talk to you. 
Before you let a man sweep you off your feet, be sure he is prepared to catch you when you fall.
You might be too much woman for him.You might be too independent. Too smart. Too much of a catch. He may not be ready for the weight of how beautiful you are. How gorgeous you are. How strong you are. He may not be ready yet.
You, have to be prepared...to be yourself regardless of if he can carry you or not.
So it's important for you to know his past. His attributes. His strengths. If he's prepared to handle how beautiful you are. How gorgeous, how so awesome you are.
So, I'm here to tell you...that it's super important for you to take your time.
Don't just listen to sweet nothings. Don't listen to words, watch actions.
Because you're too fragile to be dropped. 
Your heart is way too valuable to be mishandled. 
And your brain don't need a bruise.
So before you let a man sweep you off your feet...be sure he is strong enough, secure enough in himself, be sure he has the proper amount of self-esteem, self-confidence to handle how god damn awesome YOU are."
So I just got back from campus after exams and briefings and I was on Facebook when I came across this video of a guy saying all these things and DAMN his momma raised him right.
Finally heading home tomorrow after weeeeeeeeeks. So excited to see everyone at home. So excited for this weekend. And the following weekend. And the weekend after that.
So excited to meet all the friends and special people I'm going to meet gah!
Got our schedule for the professional exam in January and it is so fcking crazy I honestly have no idea how I'm going to make it through those two weeks sane.
Taking one step at a time and hoping for all things positive.
Last picture of the year with the squad. Gonna miss these girls this month but we'll be back again before we know it 😉

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